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lunaticg
22-02-06, 11:47
Hi!

just view my latest feedback:

zarlyn neutral rating (http://www.lelong.com.my/Auc/Feedback/UserRating.asp?UserID=lunaticg@1)

Hmmm..... :(

She win my item on 15.2.2006.

On that same day, I have an emergency. Need to go back to My home town to solve some family problem (sorry, I don't like to discuss my personal matter with stranger, don't ask what Is my problem). (Send the copy of my booking ticket and boarding pass to Admin and her Today).
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the next day she e-mail me (16.2.2006):
Not getting any response from you. Try to call, but the voice said "we
are not getting a repsonse from the DIGI no. you have dial".

I can only send reply the next day since I'm a little bit busy and cannot find internet or CC. I closed my HP since I'm on an aeroplane and don't open until friday. I don't open them frequently since I don't want my friends call and ask where I am and since It is a "working" phone number, my customer might call me and then mad at me the next day after their realize I'm in Sabah.

This same day she send an e-mail to feedback:

Title: suspicious seller
I have won item 2638805 amount RM45, try to contact seller's mobile phone to make verification and confirmation before I make a payment. But, the hp more than 12 times calls, yet still not getting response. Kindly need help?


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I reply her with my ussual winner reply with this small note below:

PS: Sorry, I'm in Sabah right now. Got some family problem to solve.
I will only be back next week. Will e-mail you again If I'm already
in Selangor. Sorry for any inconvenience.

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She pay on the same day. 17.2.2006, I reply back to her:

Hi! Thanks for the prompt payment. I will let u know as soon as i get
back from sabah. Sorry for any inconvenience again and hope you
understand. Thank you.

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she without anymore e-mail just rate me neutral with this wording:

He gave a family matter reason, I need to wait for him come back from Sabah.

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I just come back last night:

send the Item just now via poslaju (send the copy of the poslaju to her and feedback)

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I don't mind If she want to rate me neutral. No matter, It is her right.

But If she cannot wait, need to settle this trade very fast (1 day cannot contact me already said that I'm a suspicious selller?), Is it fair to me as a seller?

This trade only take 5 working day from 15, 16, 20, 21 and 22. Am I wrongly do my trade?

Hmmmmm.....

*sigh*

*sigh*

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to zarlyn,

I don't ask for you to retract your feedback to me. I even Don't want your money, already send it back with the item. Thank you very much but look like you needed it most then me. Don't try to send it back or transfer it to me. Sorry.

I don't tell lie to you. I never tell liar to my customer. I really come back home because having a family problem. Do you have a family? Do you care for them?

Just give that money to your daughter, son, brother, sister or even your parents. sorry, but so pity in this modern world. Still got people who don't want to understand people problem but just wanna accuse people. Just want to think negative about other people.

:) May God bless you and your family. :)

:D Hehehehehehehehehehehehhehehehehehhehehehehe :D

Peace.

venyong
22-02-06, 12:09
gooos job s...he DID.....i also kena 1.....close deal with him within 12 hours but still neutral rating given !!!!

lesley82
22-02-06, 13:01
small matter.....dont grief over it

Andromedia
22-02-06, 13:50
Good job lunaticg!

Let the world knows that there are still good, honest and reliable traders in Lelong and not everyone in here are money-minded. This should be an example to follow!

Bravo!

dzadza
22-02-06, 14:59
Hmm~ Hope your buyer reads this thread & change the rating... ;)

AllBiz
22-02-06, 15:08
Looks like this is a seller's forum.. everybody pro to the sellers :)

lunaticg, I feel that you don't need to memperbesar-besarkan this matter.

The way you return her the money is like insulting her. She has all the rights
against chasing you after making the payment.

What I will do is: After few days later she received the money, give a call to her
and try to explain to her the problem and hopefully everything settle.

Although you have excuse on your personal family matters, but your buyers will
not understand. All they see is after making payment and the seller disappeared.
You understand the frustration of the buyer or not ?

lunaticg
22-02-06, 16:15
Bos....

sorry If I like to memperbesar-besarkan this matter.

I know how her felt. I'm also a buyer but 1 day cannot contact already suspect people har? shud ask around before make any conclusion ma.... :(

Hmmmm.... :(

she don't understand its her problem.., sorry. She didn't ask me, she didn't complaint also when I told her that I'm in Sabah before but suddenly neutral rating. If she want to settle the trade fast she shud tell me earlier ma.... so I shud know.

I send her back the money ain't to insult her, sorry If she feel so.

I put this thread here is just to alert all genuine seller how buyer can easily trash your feedback. Even slight mistake also they can make it as advantage. Its her right to do so (feedback neutral), I accept but just don't tell me a liar when it come to my family matters.

Sorry, that kind of attitude in a person just make me feel sick.

venyong
22-02-06, 16:36
goood job u alll did !

ebusyman
22-02-06, 17:05
Dont get angry and feel sick. Why punish yourself again and again with others' mistake?

Brannix
22-02-06, 19:06
good facts!

but we are all human being with feeling & emotion