or cockroaches r more scary? hehe

Cockroaches are more scary.

give birth can be nightmare to some ladies. :(
the fear, pain, patience...temper....& so on
once the birth of the child, burden comes....

i heard over the radio this morning, one man said his wife was in labor for 26 hours b4 their 1st child was born...

i'm afraid becos i dunno how bad the pain can get... & whether i can tahan it or not... everyone who's a mother seems to have different version on what the pain's really like. some said very pain, some said not so pain, some said din't even feel any pain (cos did caesarian).

The pain is 18 years for a caring daddy!!!! please don't forget that!!!.

painful to the pocket and painful to the mind!!!

ahaha... that's true.

The pain is 18 years for a caring daddy!!!! please don't forget that!!!.

painful to the pocket and painful to the mind!!!

come on..that is the usual daddy's role/responsibility to the family...

come on..that is the usual daddy's role/responsibility to the family...
Someday, in one of the many lelong gatherings, I am going to bring my "angels" along.... then you tell me!!!

Someday, in one of the many lelong gatherings, I am going to bring my "angels" along.... then you tell me!!!

how many angels do you have???? :p

how many angels do you have???? :p
3 lovely "angels". hahahaha

1gal and 2 guys and non stop squabbles!!!

wah 3 only. i saw some got 13, :eek: but the mother only 30++
so with 13 and the still coming how do you all think about the father? :p

I think being a father is wonderful. Despite the responsibilities and the lifetime long commitment, I think nothing in the world is cuter compared to a baby. Sanfu memang have to sanfu already either way, so I rather sanfu WITH the baby than WITHOUT.

i heard over the radio this morning, one man said his wife was in labor for 26 hours b4 their 1st child was born...

i'm afraid becos i dunno how bad the pain can get... & whether i can tahan it or not... everyone who's a mother seems to have different version on what the pain's really like. some said very pain, some said not so pain, some said din't even feel any pain (cos did caesarian).

If I have to be in labour for 26 hours, I sure pengsan 1 loh...

If I have to be in labour for 26 hours, I sure pengsan 1 loh...

well, when i get to that stage in life, i shall let u know if i pengsan or not :D

well, when i get to that stage in life, i shall let u know if i pengsan or not :D

next year??? :D:D:D

oii... kasi la chance aku kahwin dulu!!!!!

oii... kasi la chance aku kahwin dulu!!!!!

maybe u will only go through 26 mins.. :D

maybe u will only go through 26 mins.. :D

hehehe... i wish i could :D

One woman didn't even know she was pregnant. Then when she went into labour, she thought she got a major food poisoning and that she was going to die. After 30 minutes, out popped the baby. She and her husband was so surprised.

One woman didn't even know she was pregnant. Then when she went into labour, she thought she got a major food poisoning and that she was going to die. After 30 minutes, out popped the baby. She and her husband was so surprised.

wah like that also got one... this couple..do they know..what they do when their having sex then?? :cool:

One woman didn't even know she was pregnant. Then when she went into labour, she thought she got a major food poisoning and that she was going to die. After 30 minutes, out popped the baby. She and her husband was so surprised.

goodness... so blur one...

9 months no aunty visit, surely she shud have suspected something...

Got aunty visit, only put on a little weight, could still wear old jeans ~

hmmm... interesting.

instant baby :D

Got aunty visit, only put on a little weight, could still wear old jeans ~

who is that women then?? related to you?? must interview her..of her superb... birth of a baby !!!

Don't know her personally but watched her interview on TV a long time ago.

din't she get any morning sickness or anything?

Nope, everything was normal.

Was she "TAKEN" by alien...?? that is possible if that baby "pop-out"

Partygal, did you know the race of the parents...why so blur

my mom told me first birth child(i am the first one, oops :p ) usually is the hardest among to all the mummy out there.Once over the first one, then the others is easier.

why ah? (innocent look).... :p

u betul innocent o fake 1? i would think it's bcoz of the 1st time that opening expand to the max to make way for the foetus
giving birth is definitely scary...thinking of the pain is = hell...probably choose to go through caesarean if possible.

wah hahahaha... MissYou can read my mind!!! :P

this afternoon onli, while my colleagues n i were hving lunch, we discussed on the child delivery thing .. haha, cos one of us is expecting her baby this coming Nov, she always complain to me tht she feels her stomach very heavy, eh .. at least, she is going to hv a relief soon lio, keke ... does anyone who come across fathers who actually fainted at the labour room seeing so many blood from the baby delivering process ar ? it did happen u know ..

i was thinking..what will happen to the stomach after delivering...will it be like a couple layer of fats???:Pnothing to fill the space

nolar...it will go back to normal la....like before having birth...but the pelvis will become wider....kekekke....

you know, you can always ask for the labour pain-killer drugs to lessen the pain.....

this afternoon onli, while my colleagues n i were hving lunch, we discussed on the child delivery thing .. haha, cos one of us is expecting her baby this coming Nov, she always complain to me tht she feels her stomach very heavy, eh .. at least, she is going to hv a relief soon lio, keke ... does anyone who come across fathers who actually fainted at the labour room seeing so many blood from the baby delivering process ar ? it did happen u know ..

A husband should be in the delivery room. A husband should witness the pain their wife experiencing all these while. :)

most hubbies scared leh... :p

The doc will ask if you are afraid of seeing blood and all. If so, he expect you to wait outside. He does not want to have another paitent to look after. hehehe

I was in for my 1st and 2nd. 3, the stupid doc did not call me.

A husband should be in the delivery room. A husband should witness the pain their wife experiencing all these while. :)

i agree... :D my fiancee has already "chop" a place in the delivery room...

i agree... :D my fiancee has already "chop" a place in the delivery room...

good then.... it is good so that husband can also tell their kids... it is not easy for a women to give birth..

but if the husband is the cannot-see-blood type, he's better off waiting outside... :D :D :D

nanti pengsan, banyak susah oooo....

but if the husband is the cannot-see-blood type, he's better off waiting outside... :D :D :D

nanti pengsan, banyak susah oooo....

should not be a problem for husbands... didnt you read today paper... there are more men donating blood than women ! oOOohhhhh... guys wouldn't mind sparing their blood bank to others.. so husbands..should spend once in a while seeing his own flesh and blood birth of his baby.. hhehe :D

Partygal, did you know the race of the parents...why so blur

Ya caucasians ~ not blur but no signs of being pregnant mah.

my mom told me first birth child(i am the first one, oops :p ) usually is the hardest among to all the mummy out there.Once over the first one, then the others is easier.


Cos "longgar" already mar :( :( :(

Cos "longgar" already mar :( :( :(

wah lao eh...respect u :P

HAHAHA that's what I read mar :(

wahahaha.....ah beng interested to know liao ah? '

actually hor, to all the gals out there...giving birth not painful lah...if u are used to those monthly mestrual cramps....its almost similar just that its taking a higher degree of cramps. My first baby labours lasted almost 12 hrs with occasional breaks of waters and with cramps starting at 15 mins interval at 6 hrs onwards, until the cramps becomes more frequent that i dreaded looking at the clock knowing the cramps are coming.....why? because u are lying flat on the delivery bed with some gadget attached to the tummy to monitor the baby's heart beating....so, when the cramps comes, u cannot lurched urself into a shrimp position as what we normally did during our menstrual pain.....so, had to lay flat and endure the pain.....PAIN........haha, gals, dun worry laa, u know why we are the lucky one to give births? Because females are better at handling pain......than males.

and btw, ur perception or the pelvis becomes "longgar" is absolutely wrong ler....its natural skin will retract back to its original size, of course minus the virgin size la...

and btw, ur perception or the pelvis becomes "longgar" is absolutely wrong ler....its natural skin will retract back to its original size, of course minus the virgin size la...

Easy, give the nurse "Ang Pau" and ask her to sew few more extra stiches.
:D ;) :p

haha, i duno about ur nurse....speedo, but mine was stitched by the doc....of course ler, paid for his gynae services leh...not cheap leh... and just to chip in some info, when its time for delivery, the vaginal hole had to reach at least 10 cm wide and the doc will even cut some slits to enable easier delivery, which he will later sew back....no , one wont feel the pain, because they already injected some painkiller on u, and while the doc is sewing the vaginal hole, u can even feel the thread zapping here and there, but no pain.....hehe...( detail leh...)

--wah.... it's great to be a mother-leh.... :D :D :D ....

yalor...love your mummy more

aiyer...those details are not too encouraging ler....frightening more pple:P cant imagine... so scary...

*wanna vomit*

*wanna vomit*

Haven't u gals seen those forwarded give birth photos b4 ? :eek:

No wor, only saw the video on abortion ~ EEEWWWWWW :( :(

aiyah, too bad PartyGal i deleted those forwarded mails of child delivery process, if not, u might want to take a peep, :P

abortion...eeks that too horrible

*wanna vomit*

most probably, if u were the pending delivery mummy-to-be, u wont feel so lio loh, maybe u will onli feel desperate jek, to wanna see your baby, whom u hv carried for 9 months n 1 week, :P

AND one week? wah ~

no idea, tht is wht i understand lah, kakaka ... correct me if i'm wrong, :P

need chilicandy over here....do explaine...what the extra one week.

I think chilicandy has already explained in EXPLICIT detail!!!! I almost fainted readiing her descriptions!!!! :O ... Maybe she should write a "Sex Education for Dummies" book!!!!

Chili, you must have an eidetic memory, to be able to recall your 1st birth in such great detail!!!

Or was it so painful that every detail was burned into your memory forever?

hey i was thinking..r those stitching work a necessity???how bout old days??? those people don stitch one right? what is the main purpose???anyway this makes me feel dam lucky because i'm a guy hehe:P oyeah iwas thinking anyone tried "kam kuai fei" that traditional med??can relief menstrual pain mer??nowadays no more advertisement from them anymore:P

In the past, many babies and mummies died in childbirth due to complications that arose... nowadays, the risk is much reduced with the advent of modern child birth methods, including epiostomy, etc.

Ah Beng, why don't u try kamkuaifei ? ~ kekekek

Ah Beng, why don't u try kamkuaifei ? ~ kekekek

U want Ah Beng's little bro Dicky boy down there to shrink ah ? :rolleyes: :D ;)

U want Ah Beng's little bro Dicky boy down there to shrink ah ? :rolleyes: :D ;)

hahha,
won't shrink one lar.paling teruk the arsehole kecut nia :D :D

wahahaha.....ah beng interested to know liao ah? '

actually hor, to all the gals out there...giving birth not painful lah...if u are used to those monthly mestrual cramps....its almost similar just that its taking a higher degree of cramps. My first baby labours lasted almost 12 hrs with occasional breaks of waters and with cramps starting at 15 mins interval at 6 hrs onwards, until the cramps becomes more frequent that i dreaded looking at the clock knowing the cramps are coming.....why? because u are lying flat on the delivery bed with some gadget attached to the tummy to monitor the baby's heart beating....so, when the cramps comes, u cannot lurched urself into a shrimp position as what we normally did during our menstrual pain.....so, had to lay flat and endure the pain.....PAIN........haha, gals, dun worry laa, u know why we are the lucky one to give births? Because females are better at handling pain......than males.

but what about the time when u push the baby out? that's where all the energy is needed rite? won't it be painful also?

hahha,
won't shrink one lar.paling teruk the arsehole kecut nia :D :D


Wahahahaha U tried eh?

but what about the time when u push the baby out? that's where all the energy is needed rite? won't it be painful also?

this is where most gals thoughts the pain would be, but in actual, the pain is still on the "menstrual cramps" side....
for my dotter, there wasnt much pain during the "pushing", but for my son, the pain is unbearable. Because he "stretches" as i am pushing him out....... hehe, i hope u dont faint listening to all these.....

hey i was thinking..r those stitching work a necessity???how bout old days??? those people don stitch one right? what is the main purpose???anyway this makes me feel dam lucky because i'm a guy hehe:P oyeah iwas thinking anyone tried "kam kuai fei" that traditional med??can relief menstrual pain mer??nowadays no more advertisement from them anymore:P

haha, the more u ask, the more gruesome details u gonna hear...sure u want to hear? haha...

well, the lucky things with our modern technology is that, nowadays, the stitchings "threads" used those that will melts itself away. During my sis-in-law times, they had to go back to the doctor for the "unstitched" session after it had heal.So, imagine those pain they hav to go through.

in those days, where there is no technology so great as now, its all depended on the mom herself, she had to push, and if she pushes too hard or badly, she would had torn her vaginal during the stretch. Which is why, as what cloud7 mentioned, rate of death during childbirth is higher than nowadays.

this is where most gals thoughts the pain would be, but in actual, the pain is still on the "menstrual cramps" side....
for my dotter, there wasnt much pain during the "pushing", but for my son, the pain is unbearable. Because he "stretches" as i am pushing him out....... hehe, i hope u dont faint listening to all these.....

naaah, won't faint... heheheh... tell more so i can prepare myself mentally for the actual event... :D

fear of pain ofcos still there... but unless caesarian (which i think is no fun cos din't feel anything), still have to go thru some pain when giving birth...

i think its better to go through a natural birth than caesarian...because, its really a wholesome experience...the best part is, after all the hard labour , pain and pushing, u get to see the child, in its most natural condition (they will place the baby on top of u when they cut & tie the uterus), then they will show u ur baby before its taken away for washing....the feeling, when it all finished, is just so great...its like ending a battle and u are the winner...

I tot my mom said ... first time ... is like 18th lvl hellish pain. After that ... 2 and 3rd is like pangsai onli ... kekeke. That's why my younger bro are much darker than me. Came out together with the poo. Kekeke.

hahaha..funny TGNJ! ye know why its hellish pain for her? because she's giving birth to a boy mah...the bone structure of boy and gal is diff. Its easier to giv birth to a gal than a boy....

My mom said ... she tot gozilla coming out of her belly. I said ... sei mou ... cos ... my dad surname is 'Goh'. She is Goh Si Lai ... gozilla in chinese. Kekeke.

Boy or girl no different~laaa ... all same size come out. If twin even more susah ... yours is what ... if come out x3 ... somebody going to cry for help

i think its better to go through a natural birth than caesarian...because, its really a wholesome experience...the best part is, after all the hard labour , pain and pushing, u get to see the child, in its most natural condition (they will place the baby on top of u when they cut & tie the uterus), then they will show u ur baby before its taken away for washing....the feeling, when it all finished, is just so great...its like ending a battle and u are the winner...

yea... caesarian seems too easy... get knocked out, wake up... baby is there already.

i guess its important to go thru the natural process... that way u can bond better with the baby... i think?

hahaha..funny TGNJ! ye know why its hellish pain for her? because she's giving birth to a boy mah...the bone structure of boy and gal is diff. Its easier to giv birth to a gal than a boy....

woh, i din't know this... thot both also same only one...

easy lynnee, next time u see a baby gal, u try rub her back and shoulder, feel the bone structure, next time u see a baby boy, u do the same thing. You will notice that baby boy's shoulder and back are harder than gals....

will do chili... thanks for the tip :D

so... chili jr the 3rd... boy or gal?

haha...hav 2 wait at least i m 5th month , then only we will know

i tot u wanna know it the traditional way?

then we all do betting..hehe...
boy or gal...
btw, guyz...
Andromedia revealed "HIS" gender dee....

oh? where?

goto chilicandy corner, the answer is there...hehe

--heh..heh... I knew he is "boy" after chatting with him online several times-liao...
--that's why you can see I cast the vote to "male" in chilli's circle... :D ...

lynnee baby, dont u think tht hving to undergo the caesarian process is fun, cos the great pain is yet to come, tht is after few days, n u will hv to practice tighter pantang, for really long time, probably longer than mummys who gave birth naturally, tht is wht i heard lah .. keke

lynnee baby, dont u think tht hving to undergo the caesarian process is fun, cos the great pain is yet to come, tht is after few days, n u will hv to practice tighter pantang, for really long time, probably longer than mummys who gave birth naturally, tht is wht i heard lah .. keke

itu macam sudah tak syok lar... if it has to be pain, lets just get over with it ASAP!

hehehe.

ASAP oso not so soon gua ~

yeah, ASAP also can mean hours and hours of labour... :P

in conclusion, giving birth = pain, n there's np easy way out....

A Big Salute To All Mothers!

yeah, ASAP also can mean hours and hours of labour... :P

what i meant by ASAP was ...as what suyi said, if u did a caesarian the pain only comes later... u don't feel the pain during the childbirth itself. who knows how long the after pains will last?? probably longer than 26 hours also...

my colleague who did a caesarian said, after giving birth, coughing, pangsai-ing & doing various other activities is extremely painful... & it can go on for quite awhile.

for normal birth, the pain is only during the birth...after that no more pain liao...

so what i'm saying is why prolong the pains? get it over fast fast lah!!

for normal birth, the pain is only during the birth...after that no more pain liao...



There won't be painful meh? :o

There won't be painful meh? :o

damn direct hor u hehehe....should ask.. chilicandy .... she should be the expert by now :)

HAHAHA not that direct la.. See, i used "THERE" mar :p

now...you seem to be pointing at it....hihihi

Hehehehehe... Giving birth IS pain. I'm so lucky to be a guy! But anyway, I'm proud of all mothers larrrr... Women can endure more pain than men - that I believe

so guys respect your mother, wife, gf and women !!!!!! :)

More power to women !

women too powerful already... controlling men jor... :p

A female friend of mine is so afraid of giving birth. So there was once I got a forwarded mail about this lady went through abortion and I forwarded it to her and ONLY her. Heh! Now, she's even more afraid. But oh well, life is such, you havent reach that point in life, you're scared - you dont want to do it.

When you reach there, you'd say "I wanna carry you baby." to your husband. So to all women in the world, dont worry about it first. Come to that stage in life only start worrying.

My favorite verse from the Bible. - Matt6:34 - Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.

wah, pennywise so bad... go & scare the poor girl like that... :o

Live one day at a time :D

well, that's one way... :p

Any other ways?

maybe, don't know... do you?

I don't, that's why ask u.

I also don't know so have to ask someone else now... anyone know ah? :p