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tgnj
14-09-03, 03:04
Few nights ago, I spend a time drinking shandy under full moon in a basketball court ... then my friend asked me ... how do you know if she is the one that he is looking for ... or wanting to look for a girl that he like.

I tot he is drunk ... but ... look like he was for real.

I think most of the time ... if go for the look ... easy to like a girl ... if want to find want that can really be with not easy. He was like ... time for him liao. Hahahahaa.

laytiong
14-09-03, 08:53
Huh....***?...i dun understand...too early for me to think

Partygal
14-09-03, 15:00
You mean "How do u know if she is Ms. Right?"

I also dunno how ~ LOL

s.h.lim
14-09-03, 17:52
perhaps your basic instinct will tell when the time come by....
those who married.... any comments??? ;)

vivienlpl
14-09-03, 18:35
who is the desperado?? :D

Partygal
14-09-03, 21:00
TGNJ lor ~

nancyhoe
15-09-03, 00:05
no comment...hihihi

bengjiun
15-09-03, 00:32
i think there's no rules...but one general guideline is that if u r used to a girl..that girl might be the one..but it is not always true lar..

nemesic
15-09-03, 01:51
not very understand your question!

Partygal
15-09-03, 10:55
Follow your heart lor ~

Cloud7
15-09-03, 18:09
Many people never know... they only THINK they know... but when they realise (much too late) that it's not, then they divorce...

bengjiun
15-09-03, 19:42
Many people never know... they only THINK they know... but when they realise (much too late) that it's not, then they divorce...


haha i like ur sentence..very true indeed

Partygal
15-09-03, 19:44
Aiyo so unfortunate u still could laugh ah?

nancyhoe
16-09-03, 22:25
Beng have weird expression

ZeKeZ
17-09-03, 11:18
IMHO u know when both your mind n heart agree... n also... despite being let down or disappointed with her so many times... u still wanna b wif her ^_^ if she says no 2 u... then it may mean that although u're right 4 her... she may not b right 4 u.

Cloud7
17-09-03, 21:18
Then how?????!!! :(

Partygal
18-09-03, 20:10
Follow your heart lor..... if it doesn't work out then let it be a lesson well learnt ~

Cloud7
18-09-03, 20:36
heart usually ruled by (small) head... :p

laytiong
18-09-03, 22:20
IMHO u know when both your mind n heart agree... n also... despite being let down or disappointed with her so many times... u still wanna b wif her ^_^ if she says no 2 u... then it may mean that although u're right 4 her... she may not b right 4 u.

i've heard this saying many times before

liljames
18-09-03, 22:27
true to your heart...
you must be true to your heart...
that's when the heaven will part
and baby I'll shower you with my love

open ur heart...
your heart can tell you no lies
and when your true to your heart...
you know it's gonna lead you back to me...

Cloud7
19-09-03, 13:48
is this a song?

lynnee
19-09-03, 14:04
Then how?????!!! :(

both parties have to "click"... its both parties' responsibility to assist that to happen.

& if both have done their part & still no click, the right thing to do is to accept that both of u tak ngam & move on.

Cloud7
19-09-03, 14:06
if no "click", "tick tock" can ah? :p

crossgan
19-09-03, 14:29
if no "click", "tick tock" can ah? :p

tick tock also can. but seriously, even a couple that looks so ngam with each other can still become not ngam after 7 years (personal experience....) in short, only time can tell. people told me that you will only know at the moment both stands at the altar. but then again, i have seen marriage fall apart as well. so, as a conclusion.... you will never know. :p

Partygal
19-09-03, 14:32
Ever heard of the 7-year itch?

lynnee
19-09-03, 16:38
if no "click", "tick tock" can ah? :p

planting bomb ka??

crossgan
19-09-03, 16:40
Ever heard of the 7-year itch?

huh? nope. just arrived on earth 27 years ago only.... :p

lynnee
19-09-03, 16:45
Ever heard of the 7-year itch?

marilyn monroe movie... :D :D :D

Cloud7
19-09-03, 17:46
tick tock also can. but seriously, even a couple that looks so ngam with each other can still become not ngam after 7 years (personal experience....) in short, only time can tell. people told me that you will only know at the moment both stands at the altar. but then again, i have seen marriage fall apart as well. so, as a conclusion.... you will never know. :p

then better not get married? :confused:

Partygal
20-09-03, 03:23
Bingo Cloud!

Cloud7
26-09-03, 13:07
But most girls (& guys too?) want to get married, right?

lynnee
26-09-03, 13:09
But most girls (& guys too?) want to get married, right?

including cloud :D

Cloud7
03-10-03, 13:38
of course-lah... when I meet the Chosen One... :p

Partygal
03-10-03, 21:01
IF u choose her, then of cos she will be the Chosen One ler :p

saviour23
04-10-03, 16:11
cloud...you already have one la.... your matchmake one..haha

vivienlpl
04-10-03, 16:26
cloud...you already have one la.... your matchmake one..haha
who ar? AHappyA??? :D

laytiong
04-10-03, 17:27
kakakakaka....cloud later u get high blood pressure...AhappyA dun wan to talk on the phone to u...

lynnee
04-10-03, 17:50
cinta sms la then :D :D :D

Partygal
04-10-03, 20:47
Cinta lelong forum :p

pennywise
05-10-03, 03:53
Hahahahahaha... Cloud7 kena bomb... Yea lor, AhappyA looks damn cun in the pict wat!!!

kbng
05-10-03, 13:12
But most girls (& guys too?) want to get married, right?

Well.. not necessarily. Dunno depends I guess :)

Partygal
05-10-03, 14:00
Depends on whether one is straight or gay gua.....

Cloud7
06-10-03, 13:08
Hahahahahaha... Cloud7 kena bomb... Yea lor, AhappyA looks damn cun in the pict wat!!!
assuming that's her... anyway, relationships shouldn't be based on looks or, for that matter, $ alone...

Partygal
06-10-03, 20:35
But first impression makes a big difference.

Cloud7
07-10-03, 10:23
true... to an extent...

Partygal
08-10-03, 15:07
hehehe, now not true liao :p

Cloud7
08-10-03, 18:23
why not?.... ????

Partygal
08-10-03, 18:36
Cos so many ppl got tricked by AhappyA's "photo" :p

Cloud7
08-10-03, 18:55
not me... though the girl was cute...

Partygal
08-10-03, 19:05
WAS? IS ler .. still cute mar :p

Cloud7
08-10-03, 19:10
oh yeah... ok, IS then... :p

Partygal
08-10-03, 20:32
AHA ~ good, so u want to find out who she is? Good luck!

Cloud7
09-10-03, 01:23
:d :d :d :d :d

CashOnly
07-11-03, 19:53
his photo fake one also all gila already...i wonder if that realla member then how ahhh

Cloud7
08-11-03, 13:00
then everyone become colour wolf... :p

CashOnly
18-11-03, 11:05
hahahaha all the buaya also come out lah

billytong
18-11-03, 11:29
then everyone become colour wolf... :p

except me.....cause i dont think she is cute enough....I dont like that kind of face...I got different taste gua. :p

CashOnly
18-11-03, 11:59
well i don't care about any other women in the ense of a gf so no worries for me

Cloud7
18-11-03, 20:25
Huh? me no understand???

Partygal
21-11-03, 21:44
U, no need to understand :D

Cloud7
22-11-03, 11:07
:( :( :( :( :(

Partygal
23-11-03, 10:22
Smile lah! *kuchit!*

Cloud7
27-11-03, 16:58
wahahahaha... Partygal kuchit me!!!! :) :) :)

lynnee
27-11-03, 17:13
for sure tonite tak boleh tidur liao... :D :D :D :D :D

Cloud7
27-11-03, 18:45
hehehehehe... :p

nancyhoe
28-11-03, 00:27
make sure you have you wear an adult diaper tonight when u sleep...:D

saviour23
28-11-03, 04:10
yooo...Partygal always like to kuchit Cloud........so nice...

Cloud7
28-11-03, 11:55
I'm ticklish some more... :p

vivienlpl
28-11-03, 12:11
yooo...Partygal always like to kuchit Cloud........so nice...
saviour23 also want is it??? dont envy.... cloud7 deserves the hard effort...of courtship...

Cloud7
28-11-03, 14:02
yeah lor... saviour jealous ah? :p

CashOnly
10-12-03, 16:34
put in effort but got gain anything??

kwls
20-02-04, 22:35
Few nights ago, I spend a time drinking shandy under full moon in a basketball court ... then my friend asked me ... how do you know if she is the one that he is looking for ... or wanting to look for a girl that he like.

I tot he is drunk ... but ... look like he was for real.

I think most of the time ... if go for the look ... easy to like a girl ... if want to find want that can really be with not easy. He was like ... time for him liao. Hahahahaa.

You have been scouting around and so was she. Started in the same square and when you both eventually realised you ended up coming back to the square, well that is when you sit down and scratch your head and think 'damn it, how come I never realised', 'how could I be so blind all this while'? You know all the questions started to pop up like nobody's business. It is almost certain that you know she is the ONE!

I am babbling, am I not? :confused:

CashOnly
24-02-04, 14:35
yes u r babbling my friend!!!

vivienlpl
24-02-04, 14:45
yes u r babbling my friend!!!
dont say ppl like that lar...his just sharing views...

deqmat
24-02-04, 18:48
its all bullshit!!!

saviour23
25-02-04, 00:51
put in effort but got gain anything??

yeah..cloud..did u gain anything then???...how about u Cash??

CashOnly
25-02-04, 18:10
i never gain....alwaz lose

vivienlpl
25-02-04, 19:47
yeah..cloud..did u gain anything then???...how about u Cash??
cloud7 should gain something after all.......

kwls
25-02-04, 22:48
I posted a message here but now, I am completely lost. Wot's going on? :D

liljames
25-02-04, 23:46
as usual la...stray from the main topic... :p

vivienlpl
26-02-04, 10:52
I posted a message here but now, I am completely lost. Wot's going on? :D
post again loh.... maybe it overslip to other thread.... :D

Cloud7
27-02-04, 10:27
You have been scouting around and so was she. Started in the same square and when you both eventually realised you ended up coming back to the square, well that is when you sit down and scratch your head and think 'damn it, how come I never realised', 'how could I be so blind all this while'? You know all the questions started to pop up like nobody's business. It is almost certain that you know she is the ONE!

I am babbling, am I not? :confused:
No-lah... there IS some truth in what you are saying...

kwls
28-02-04, 14:05
No-lah... there IS some truth in what you are saying...

Course! :D

We all are humans though as an individual we are unique and different but man, how different can we be? :confused:

We all will go through the phases of life, some moved on and some are still stuck there. :rolleyes:

No shit, why am I so philosophical nowadays? Must the age factor. :D

Just my two cents..... :p

vivienlpl
28-02-04, 17:33
Course! :D

We all are humans though as an individual we are unique and different but man, how different can we be? :confused:

We all will go through the phases of life, some moved on and some are still stuck there. :rolleyes:

No shit, why am I so philosophical nowadays? Must the age factor. :D

Just my two cents.....
i find you interesting.....you should come in here more often and share your views...... we need ppl like you ... :D

kwls
29-02-04, 14:33
i find you interesting.....you should come in here more often and share your views...... we need ppl like you ... :D

Hi Viv,

I just speak my mind and I hope no members here get offended. :)

Regards,
Kelly

vivienlpl
29-02-04, 20:02
Hi Viv,

I just speak my mind and I hope no members here get offended. :)

Regards,
Kelly
the most they goreng you....you goreng them back loh... :D

kwls
29-02-04, 21:16
the most they goreng you....you goreng them back loh... :D

I wonder what's their favourites, goreng sotong, cha kuey teow, yau thiu..? :D

CashOnly
01-03-04, 14:56
Course! :D

We all are humans though as an individual we are unique and different but man, how different can we be? :confused:

We all will go through the phases of life, some moved on and some are still stuck there. :rolleyes:

No shit, why am I so philosophical nowadays? Must the age factor. :D

Just my two cents..... :p
what is ur age that u say such a thing

vivienlpl
01-03-04, 15:51
I wonder what's their favourites, goreng sotong, cha kuey teow, yau thiu..? :D
none of the above..they probably goreng...you... :D

kwls
01-03-04, 19:57
what is ur age that u say such a thing

Does my age matters? :D

I am young at heart but wise in age...muahaha :rolleyes:

Chill out, people.....

kwls
01-03-04, 19:59
none of the above..they probably goreng...you... :D

Eh! I prefer BBQ :D

Bring it on :p

vivienlpl
01-03-04, 22:48
Eh! I prefer BBQ :D

Bring it on :p
with added sauce?????? or gravy in you? :D

Cloud7
02-03-04, 10:26
Or gravy on her? LOL

CashOnly
02-03-04, 16:06
yeah but the way u make it sound like u have seen loads in life and nothing more excites u......i reckon u might not be that old after all....

CashOnly
02-03-04, 16:07
bbq......where and when??i try to come ok

vivienlpl
02-03-04, 17:59
bbq......where and when??i try to come ok
you can meh.. you are always with your own plans

CashOnly
03-03-04, 10:26
not with my own plans my dear....i am very often bz...alwaz got so much work...besides that there is also the gf factor.....then u tell me the date early lah....not august ok...i will not be in the country for 1 month.....got too much leave must finish lor

kwls
05-03-04, 00:22
yeah but the way u make it sound like u have seen loads in life and nothing more excites u......i reckon u might not be that old after all....

Wot wot? :)

Again, I am lost. I've been really inundated this whole week, hardly have time for other things. I'm just shooting off some posts here and head for bed.

Hullo CashOnly,
Is the message meant for me? Course there are still many wonderful things and people excite me. Hmmm...that's a pretty cheeky way to find out my age. :D

Nite nite and sweet dreams, folks. ;)

boonchung
05-03-04, 01:03
Wot wot? :)

Again, I am lost. I've been really inundated this whole week, hardly have time for other things. I'm just shooting off some posts here and head for bed.

Hullo CashOnly,
Is the message meant for me? Course there are still many wonderful things and people excite me. Hmmm...that's a pretty cheeky way to find out my age. :D

Nite nite and sweet dreams, folks. ;)


If you were to state your animal sign(ie...Rabbit or dragon or etc...)..I would know your age...ha..ha...This is a big world with a lot of excitement and funny funny people...why would your life be bored?

vivienlpl
05-03-04, 11:31
not with my own plans my dear....i am very often bz...alwaz got so much work...besides that there is also the gf factor.....then u tell me the date early lah....not august ok...i will not be in the country for 1 month.....got too much leave must finish lor
tomorrow?? hehee just jk.....
we dont really have the next...gathering..only....probably...waiting for chilicandy - 1 full moon../month...baby...........

kwls
09-03-04, 01:03
If you were to state your animal sign(ie...Rabbit or dragon or etc...)..I would know your age...ha..ha...This is a big world with a lot of excitement and funny funny people...why would your life be bored?

Eh, I've never hinted I'm bored with life. :confused:

Wah! Wot's going on here, man? Stop posting, people...I can't catch up. :D

vleewh
09-03-04, 12:56
guess that's tough.... i guess if ur attracted to her and thinks abt her like 24/7, then prob she's the one.... for NOW.... well, no one knows what will happen next, right?

CashOnly
12-03-04, 10:54
Wot wot? :)

Again, I am lost. I've been really inundated this whole week, hardly have time for other things. I'm just shooting off some posts here and head for bed.

Hullo CashOnly,
Is the message meant for me? Course there are still many wonderful things and people excite me. Hmmm...that's a pretty cheeky way to find out my age. :D

Nite nite and sweet dreams, folks. ;)
not cheeky...just that u seem to show loads of maturity.......just wondering the age as u seem very nuetral with words and seem to have a flow in live yet in control of it!!!chill dear...i'm hitched...not here for other reasons

CashOnly
12-03-04, 10:55
tomorrow?? hehee just jk.....
we dont really have the next...gathering..only....probably...waiting for chilicandy - 1 full moon../month...baby...........
ok can let me know...keep me in mind when u got gathering...i might be shifting jobs....might be working in bangkok soon

PiggiEss
13-03-04, 12:30
I've said this over and over and over again.....
Just follow your heart. You'll know she or he is the one if you just wanna be with her or him even without weighing all the pros and cons or whatsover....
Well of course you'll weigh them, the pros and cons, but deep down you know that no matter how much you weigh them, you still feel a very very strong desire to be with her or him.....

DO NOT commit the same mistake I did....
THE CLEAREST sign is when you start to wonder and shudder at the though of being married to him or her, and you prefer not to think about it. Then you know for sure that you dont love him or her enough.

blurcheryl
13-03-04, 20:07
what if ur heart give u a wrong direction?

chilicandy
13-03-04, 20:28
what if ur heart give u a wrong direction?

normally its the heart versus brain ( practicality)......

kwls
14-03-04, 01:32
what if ur heart give u a wrong direction?

"what if" again?! Can't believe we still speak of that. I think the word IF only applies in the business arena, science and history.

Blurchery, I hope you're not stuck in a fork road and having to decide on "what if" I were to take the left or right road. :rolleyes:

Cloud7
15-03-04, 13:04
I've said this over and over and over again.....
Just follow your heart. You'll know she or he is the one if you just wanna be with her or him even without weighing all the pros and cons or whatsover....
Well of course you'll weigh them, the pros and cons, but deep down you know that no matter how much you weigh them, you still feel a very very strong desire to be with her or him.....

DO NOT commit the same mistake I did....
THE CLEAREST sign is when you start to wonder and shudder at the though of being married to him or her, and you prefer not to think about it. Then you know for sure that you dont love him or her enough.
oooh... Ms Piggy has an interesting experience to tell... :p

Cloud7
15-03-04, 13:06
what if ur heart give u a wrong direction?
Welcome back, Blur Princess! :D

Did your heart give you a wrong direction away from us... and that's why you have been MIA so long??

blurcheryl
16-03-04, 15:38
no lah....
i was doing my summer course in singapore for three months.. slow connection at home... after that preparing to continue study... then ma mia lor....
why?? u miss me huh???

Cloud7
16-03-04, 16:01
no lah....
i was doing my summer course in singapore for three months.. slow connection at home... after that preparing to continue study... then ma mia lor....
why?? u miss me huh???
Yeah, missed our Blur Princess... hehehe... but now you are back! :p

blurcheryl
16-03-04, 17:05
not really back lah~~~~
school just open... free for now only.. getting more busy for the coming subject.....

Cloud7
16-03-04, 17:18
oooh... ok, then we must make the most of your free time now... :p

school? what are you studying?

blurcheryl
16-03-04, 22:47
me?
at uni now lor..
last year....
hope to graduate 5 5....

Cloud7
17-03-04, 11:02
oooh... coming soon!!! which uni? don't tell me UM also?

blurcheryl
17-03-04, 14:32
i'm in monash uni ler...
i can't enter local uni
:(
have to spent a lot of money t study uni....

Cloud7
18-03-04, 09:42
Oooh... okie... yeah, higher education getting more and more expensive... better start saving for your kids' education early!!! :p

blurcheryl
18-03-04, 11:19
yea lor....
start savig for ur child eduation since he/she is still a baby..
no worries after that

Cloud7
18-03-04, 12:09
worries will start when you have 2, then 3... :p

blurcheryl
18-03-04, 18:08
don't get so much children lor....

CashOnly
22-03-04, 10:16
don't get so much children lor....
simple solution to a simple problem huh

vivienlpl
01-04-04, 22:16
simple solution to a simple problem huh
not really..not really a good solution...when you have kids.....
or avoid to have kids.....

Cloud7
05-04-04, 10:08
Well, so long as you plan carefully and can afford it... it's ok to have many children...

CashOnly
27-04-04, 11:55
well not for me....i cannto afford it